Doosri Shaadi???

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  1. Aroosa

    Aroosa New Member


    aap saab aik baat sun ker heraan honge kai aik 60 saal kai aadmi ne 3 shaadi ki. usski ulaad shadi shuda aur batche wali hai.aur wo 4 th shadi kerne kai liye bih tiaar hain. Sirf iss ne nahi balqe aisye lakho hain. Jaha europe mai rehte hai mai ne aisy muslims ko dehka hai. mujhe aisey logo ko dehk ker ghussa ata hai, jo apne batcho ki bih parwa nahi kerte. kya unko sirf apni khushi pyari hoti hai?
    Hosakta hai unki koi majboori ho, lekin kya wo majboori aisi hai kai jiss se apne saathi ka dil dukhaane se perhes nahi kya jaa saake?
    wo bih to hai jo saath reh rahi hai , kya uska dil nahi? kya uss kai koi jazbaat nahi? kya wo apne husband ko khushi se share kerna chahey gi?
    hume jo chiez pyari hoti hai hum usko kisi se bih share kerna nahi chahtey, issliye kai hum uss se thori si bih "judai" bardaasht nahi kersakte, iss liye aurtain larti hain yaa jhagadhti hain.
    Islam mai ak waqt mai 2 sisters se shadi kerna kiou manna hai?? iss ka jawab yeh hai kai aisy mai behno ka aapis ka taluq kharab hojaye ga. Issliye kai allah jaanta hai kai aurat apne shohar ko baant nahi sakti aur ager aisa ho to wo apne aap per kaabu nahi kersake gi.
    umeed hai Zalim aap meri baat samjhe honge... :eek:
     
  2. Aanchal

    Aanchal New Member


    tum nay jahan say yeh ayaat parhi us ka naam bataoo ..ya pher kisi site ka link doo .......takay humari bhi maloomat main izafa hoo na zara :rolleyes:

    waisay abhi tak tumharay elawa is baat ko kisi or nay nahi bataya hai ........ main baki members kay reply ka bhi intazaar karoun gee kay woh kia kehtay hain !!!!!!
    pher deeakhian gay tumharai baat kitni sach hai ? ghulam aurtoun say talawaaqt ..... :rolleyes:
     
  3. tayyab_haq

    tayyab_haq New Member

    *g*

    slamzzz a lot . main ne aap ka mesg parha hai . main bilkul aap se agree karta hoon . magar hum kisi insan par apni marzi lago nahin kar sakte . is liye bahter to yahi hai k jo koie bhi kuch karta hai us ko karne dijye . baqi ALLAH bahter ansaf karne wala hai....................THANKS.....................ALLAH HAFIZ
     
  4. elosameer

    elosameer New Member

    yeh kiya baat hoi
     
  5. farooqrashid

    farooqrashid Moderator

    Ek feesad bhee nahee

    Me ney taqreeban sab key khayalat ko pad-ha......is thread me......lekin me ek bat kehna chahoon ga....ke me ne bohat socha....hisab lagaya...bandon ko gina...is me rishtey-daron,dosto,office ke sathion,muhalley walon ko bhee gina.....aur merey survey ke mutabiq esey logon ke ta-dad 1% bhee nahee hey jo doosree shadee kartey hen.....Mujhey badee herat is bat pe hoi ke doosree shadee pe baat karney waley ziada logon kee khud abhee tak ek shadee bhee nahee hoi.........bhai sab se dar-khast hey ke theek hey behas karen....khoob karen....katey hee rahen...aur be shak khatam bhee na karen....lekin kam se kam ek shadee kar ke shadee shuda logon ke masail se waqif to ho jaien....:) ....ye me seriously keh raha hoon.....me khud shadee shuda hooa....teen bachey henMe ye kehna chahta hoon ke jab koi aadmee dosree shadee kee bat karta he to dil pe hath rakh ke ose apney bachon ka bhee sochna padta hey.....omer ke lehaz se munas-bat bhee dekhnee padtee hey rishtey me....Family kee mukhal-fat ka samna bhee karna pad-ta hey etc....in sab baton ke bawajood agar koi doosree shadi karta he...islam ne ijazat bhee dee hey to please kanwarey hazrat os pe etraz na karen.....me as a shadi shuda islamee qawaneen ko dil se tasleem katey hoe ye to manta hoon ke doosree shadee kuch shrait ke sath jaiz hey....lekin doosree....aur teesree shadee ka mukhalif hoon....Is se beshumar pecheedgian janam letee hen.............Zaroorat mehsoos kee gaee to is barey me isee forum pe ya kisi aur thread me tafseel se bat ho gee....Insha Allah.....Sorry sab se...Agar kuch bura laga ho...Thanks
     
  6. Aroosa

    Aroosa New Member

    farooqrashid sahib, aap ne kaha kai maine apne ird gird kai logou mai survey kyaa... aap yeh bih to dehkain kai akser humare maashre mai aisy log hain jo kai chup ker doosri shadi kerte hain. aur wo doosri shadi ko chupa ker taab tak rakhte hain jaab tak mumkin ho,. kya doosri shadi itni sharam wali baat hai ? yaa koi aisa jurm hai ? Assal mai aisy log issliye darte hain kiouke unkai pass doosri shadi kerne ka koi thoss wajah nahi hoti...bass aik hi wajah hai unki nazar mai kai pehli biwi se bore hogay hain-
    aab dehk lain akser unmai aisy hain jo doosri shadi ka ilm hone hi nahi dete.
    :mad:
     
  7. Aroosa

    Aroosa New Member

    aur akser doosri shadi kerne kai liye aise aisey jhoot bolte hain, kai wo larki shadi kai liye foran haa kerde, jaise kai " mujhe aaj tak meri biwi ne koi khushi nahi di, meri shadi to maa baap ki marzi se hoi, yaa mai to ussko talaq dena chahta hoon"..etc
    aur wo doosri larki bih befqoof ban jati hai..mithi mithi batain sun ker. sahi khete hain kai Aurat hi Aurat ki dushman hoti hai.
    taab aisy log naa to apni biwi ka sochte hain aaur naa hi apne Batchou ka aur naa hi apne khaandan ka. taab to unkai damagh per aik baat sawaar hoti hai. khair aisy logou ko humesha baad mai hi pashtaawa hota hai aur baad mai hi pehli biwi ki qader ati hai.
     
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  8. farooqrashid

    farooqrashid Moderator

    Jee aap theek keh rahee hen....Please poll me hisa len....me ne link dia hey,me practically urdupages waley doston key raie se andaza lagana chahta hoon ke ye masla kis had tak hey.......?:)
    http://www.urdupages.com/showthread.php?t=16820
     
  9. shy

    shy New Member

    bilkul theek kaha aroosa ap ne or afsos ki baat wakai ye ke orat hi orat ka ghar ujarti he.
     
  10. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

    aroosa aur aanchal se yeh kehna chahta hoon ke ghulam aurton ka masla ab aanchal ne islam section mein bhej diya hai to ab hum is per vaheen behas kar len to zyaada achcha hai.
    kyoon ke yahaan jo kuch mujhe kehna tha main keh chuka hoon. aur jo kuch aap ko kehna tha aap bhi keh chukay hain.

    us thread ka link yeh hai
    http://www.urdupages.com/showthread.php?t=16816
     
  11. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

    aroosa aap se yeh kehna chahta hoon ke main ne quran bhi parha hai aur tafseer bhi parhi hai.
     
  12. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

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  13. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

    log chhup kar doosri shaadi is liye kartay hain kyoon ke pehli biwi khullay aam to doosri shaadi honay nahi de gi. pehli biwi agar doosri biwi ko bardaasht karlay chhup kar shaadi karnay ki zaroorat hi nahi.
    chhup kar shaadi karnay ki sab se bari wajah pehli biwi ke shar se mehfooz rehna hai :eek:

    second baat yeh ke islamic point of view se doosri shaadi karnay ke liye kisi jawaaz ka hona zaroori nahi hai.
    bas agar aap ke paas itna paisa hai ke aap 4 wives ka kharcha bardaasht kar saktay hain. aur aap ko shaadi ki khwahish bhi hai to aap islamic point of view ke mutabiq shaadi karsaktay hain.
    kya Huzoor PBUH ne is liye zyaada shaadiyaan ki theen kyoon ke un ke pehli azwaaj mein koi kami thi? nahi na? to phir?

    pehli biwi bilkul perfect ho tab bhi islamic point of view ke mutabiq doosri shaadi kar saktay hain. kisi kisim ke jawaaz ki koi zaroorat hai hi nahi siray se.
    only will and money is required.

    mujhe ghalat nahi samajhna main khud bhi doosri shaadi ke khilaaf hi hoon. magar fact is fact. jo sach tha main ne bata diya.
     
  14. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

    :D :D :D :D :D :p ;) :D :D :p :p :p :p :)

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  15. farooqrashid

    farooqrashid Moderator

    Aap waq-aee Zalim hen

    Aap waq-aee zalim hen..........khud bhee wohee bat keh rahey hen....aur hamara eman hee mashkook kar dia..............Sub-han-Allah
     
  16. farooqrashid

    farooqrashid Moderator

    Aap ke in alfaz se ye zahir hota hey ke na-aozo-bil-lah ham doosree shadee ke munkir hen.....aap hamarey khilaf jihad kar rahey hen.........very strange bhai...........!

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  17. mwalam

    mwalam Super Moderator

    londi aurtoon sey Ullad ho sakti hai. lakin choonkey ghulami khatam ho chuki hai is lia is per bahaas karney ka koi faida nahi.
    Main aik asal nukta uthata hoon. 4 shadion ki ijazat Allah Tallah nay bilcul sahi di hai. kion key kai dafa aysa hota hai key kisi khawand ki pahli biwi bemaar hai. aab kia woh usko Talaq day kar ghar bhaaj day. nahi! balkey woh dosri shadi karey. Araboon ka rawaj hi yeh hai. Phelistani jo key Arboonmain saab sey ziada parhey likhey hain. unki Aurtain bi 4 shadian karti hain. arboon key haan tou pahli biwi khood apney khawand ka rishta ley kar jati hai. baqi reh gai baat insaaf ki tou woh banda jis ney shaadi karni hai. usko pata hona chahiay. Europe main aap shaadi aik kar sakey hain. lakin girl frinds jitni marzi rakhain koi rook took nahi. yaad rahey europe main boy friend and girl friend aik mian biwi ki shaakal main rahtey hain.and they are known as partners. lakin Islam nay haadh laga di hai woh bi max 4 ki. us sey ziada nahi.
     
  18. mwalam

    mwalam Super Moderator

    farooq bhai zalim sahab ka koi mazhaab nahi hai. is lia iss kism key jawab ki tawqoo in sey ki ja sakti hai.
     
  19. mwalam

    mwalam Super Moderator

    Madam Arboon key haan tou Bachey apney baap ki 4th marrige karatey hain aur uskey pahli 3 biwian khood apni sootan dhoondti hain. aab kia arab musalman nahi hain.
     
  20. mwalam

    mwalam Super Moderator

     

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