Doosri Shaadi???

Discussion in 'Gupshup' started by Aroosa, Nov 5, 2004.

  1. farooqrashid

    farooqrashid Moderator

    jee

    Jee aap bilkul theek keh rahey hen.....In ko soch key bat karnee chahiey...baqee bhee sab yahan musalman hee hen........!
     
  2. ScorpioN_RulzZ

    ScorpioN_RulzZ New Member

  3. Aroosa

    Aroosa New Member

    Mr mwalam aap kai iss swaaal ka mtalaab kya hai? kai mai arab muslman hoon? mai muslim hoon iss mai arab yaa pakistani muslalmaan hone ki kya baat hai.
     
  4. Aroosa

    Aroosa New Member

    ´zaalim aap to iss thread kai maqsad ko bilkul ult le rahe hain, jaabke mera maqsad iss topic per baat kerne ka yeh tha , kai kuch log iss Jaiz tareeq to ghalaat lete hain, aur iss baat ko samjhte nahi kai islam mai ager 4 shadiou ki ijazat hai to uss kai pieche kya Hikmaat mai. mai pehli bih kaih chuki hoon kai jo log kisi majbbori yaa kisi aur wajah se ´doosri shaadi kerte hain, wo unka HAAQ hai, lekin Bohat se aisy hain jo issey apna bih Haaq samjhte hain.

    Islam mai aik hi biwi se shadi kerne per itni zimaadaria ka hukam diya hai. Aur biwi ko her tarah se khush kerne ka hukam diya hai, aur uss kai haqooq adaa kerna ka hukam diya hai. To aisy log pehli biwi ko to khush nahi kersake to doosri ko kya kerainge. baat yeh nahi hai kai ijazat hai to kerni bih zaroor hai, jokai akser log samjhte hain.


    Mai pihr se yeh kahoongi kai plsssss iss baat ko samjhain, islam mai hume her mushkil ka haal khuda ne bata diya hai, jokai kisi bih mazhab mai nahi. lekin hum log apne Haqooq adaa kerne ka kam sochte hain , aur apna Haaq lenai mai ziada "hoshiaaar" hotey hain.
     
    Last edited: Nov 8, 2004
  5. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

    aap jo kuch kehna chah rahi hain main pehlay hi samajh chuka hoon.
    main pehlay bhi keh chuka hoon ke zaahir hai ke mard 2 shadiyaan karta hai to apni khushi ke liye karta hai aur pehli biwi ka khyaal nahi rakhta. aise mard ko sirf apni zaat se dilchaspi hoti hai. aur yeh khullam khulla dhokay baazi hai.
    main pehlay bhi baar baar likh chuka hoon ke main khud bhi doosri shaadi ke khilaaf hoon.

    mard ki to jitni khaamiyaan aap ginwa rahi hain main us se zyaada tasleem karta hoon.

    lekin ab aurton ko bhi dekhen. agar mard vakayi mein bhi 2 biwiyon ke saath insaaf karay poori tarah. to phir bhi dono biwiyaan ek doosray ko bardaasht nahi karen gi.

    fact yeh hai ke ek aurat doosri aurat ka wajood bardaasht nahi karsakti.


    yeh sach hai ke islam ne do shadiyon ki ijaazat to di hai lekin 2 shadiyon ka hukum hargiz nahi diya. yaani ke 2 shadiyaan karna laazmi nahi hai.

    mukhtasiran main yeh kehna chahta hoon ke jo aadmi 2 shaadiyaan karta hai voh ghalat karta hai. aur jo muslim aurat 2 shadiyon per aitraaz karti hai voh bhi ghalat karti hai.
     
  6. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

    main ne londi aurton ke mauzoo per behas shuru nahi ki thi. main ne to apni pehli post mein sirf ek jumla likha tha jo ke fact hai. voh jumla likhnay ka mera maqsad yeh tha ke jab londi aurat tak ki ijaazat hai to phir doosri shaadi per aurat ko itna jalnay ki kya zaroorat hai?
    baad mein aanchal aur aroosa ne ghulam aurton waali baat ko hi maannay se inkaar kardiya to is tarah behas shuru hui aur mujhe wazaahat karna pari. jab ke aap ko bhi pata hai ke jo main ne kaha tha voh sach kaha tha.

    aur mwalam baat yeh nahi hai ke ghulami khatam ho chuki hai ya nahi hui. baat theory ki hai. islam ne theory tehat is ki ijaazat de di hai. sirf vohi main batana chah raha tha. ab agar aroosa aur aanchal ko yeh baat pehlay se maloom hoti to itni lambi chauri behas hoti hi nahi.

    baaqi jo kuch examples aap ne di hain voh islamic point of view ke lehaaz se theek hain.

    per aroosa aur aanchal ko kam as kam ita batado ke main ne ghulam aurton ke baaray mein jo kaha tha sahi kaha tha.
     
  7. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

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    Last edited: Nov 8, 2004
  8. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

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  9. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

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  10. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

    to kya main baghair sochay baat kar raha tha sab :rolleyes:
     
  11. Aroosa

    Aroosa New Member

    zalim bahi, hume aapki baat samjh agai...
    khair mere khiaal mai doosri shadi kerne ki wajhoohat discuss nahi hosakin aur hum doosri bataou mai padh gay...
    chalain iss topic ko rehne dain....koi faida nahi:(
     
  12. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

    ji thanks. kam as kam baat to clear hui :rolleyes:
    ok ab hum doosri shaadi karen ge, mera matlab hai ke doosri shaadi ki wajoohaat discuss karen ge :D
    magar filhaal main zara kaam se ja raha hoon vapas aa kar apni raaye pesh karoon ga.

    ghulaam aurton wala topic khatam ho chuka hai kyoon ke islam section mein bhi us maslay per alag thread khol liya gaya hai. lekin ab aap ko aur aanchal ko kam as kam itna jawaab zaroor dena parega ke aap ne mwalam ka quote parha ya nahi? aur ab aap ka kya khyaal hai kya main mazaak kar raha tha? ya apni taraf se koi baat islam se mansoob kar raha tha? ya kisi ghalat fehmi mein mubtila tha?
    ab itni baat to aap ko bhi clear karna chahiye na?
     
  13. shy

    shy New Member

  14. Aroosa

    Aroosa New Member

    shy sister bohat shukria , aap ne to itne ache andaaz mai sari baat samjha di, jo kai mai kitni deer se shaid nahi samjha parahi......thankss
     
  15. Aroosa

    Aroosa New Member

    aap ne thik kaha , hume kuch kuch ghalti lagi thi :p
     
  16. Aanchal

    Aanchal New Member


    yeh acha topic hai jis pay sab kay khayalaat maloom keye ja saktay hain or achi achi batain bhi seekhi ja sakti hain .......liken....jab khamakaha ki behas shuru hoo jaye to us topic pay pher kis ka dil karta hai baat karnay ko ?
    jo topic hi usay pay baat ki jaye....
    topic pay behas hoo jati hai laiken sirf "ilmi behas" honi chaye.....jis say kuch seeakhnay ko millaye...
    apna point of view har koi bata sakta hai laiken kisi doosray kay imaan pay kisi ko shak karnay ki zarorat nahi hai ..!!!

    or aik baat pher say clear kar doun kay jab marad ki dossri shadi ki baat hoti hai to saray marad aik hi topic lay atay hain kay yeh islam kay kheelaf batain karti hain ...isi thread main bhi yeh samjha ja raha hai :rolleyes: ....kai baar kaha hai kay aurtaian islam main dossri tessri ...shadi kay kheelaf nahi hoti balkay jo shadi kar kay nainsaafi ki jati hai us kay kheelaf hain !!!!!!!!!!!!
    or jo ghulam aurtoun kay baray main sawal tha woh abhi tak clear nahi hova hai ..jis ko is topic pay kuch kehna hai woh islamic section main aik post ki gai aap vohan apna point of view post kar saktay hain ....
    or bas yeh kay bagheer behas kay is thread ko agay barahaya ja sakta hai nahi to yehi pay stop kar dain ..........
     
  17. filbahere

    filbahere New Member

    behshak esa hi hay , lakin meray kial main is main unhoon ney koi ghalat bat naeen ki thee,
     
  18. Aroosa

    Aroosa New Member

    aanchal sis bikul thik kaha aapne, waqaie mai yeh log iss topic per behass kerne kai bajaey doosri behass mai padh gaey hain, in saab ko iss mai apne apne arguments dene chaheiy.
     
  19. zaalim

    zaalim Premium Member

  20. Aroosa

    Aroosa New Member

    aur doosri main wajah yeh hoti hai ko Khud Mard apni doosri shadi kerne pe pashtane lag jata hai. Ussey tab apni pehli biwi ki achaia aur khoobia yaad aney lag jaati hain. jaab wo doosri biwi mai wo chiez nahi dehk pataa tab wo apne sarr kai baal(ager houn :p ) to khenchne lag jata hai..
    lekin taab bohat deer ho chuki hoti hai :eek:
     

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